For your lover, give some time

"For your lover, give some time.
Take it easy and simplify it.
Give some of your time to your lover, who needs you to care and be cared, who needs you to share and be shared, who needs you to love and be loved, who thinks about you day and night, who misses you every day.


And if you take yourself into that relationship, please do not hurt the other by being heartless.
When you miss or worry or care about the other, just say it. Is it so difficult that you cannot do?
In that kind of relationship, both have to change themselves a little bit, don't keep your "self" so tight.

Just love when you are ready but not alone, which means you shouldn't take yourself into a relationship just because you are lonely, do you know how much it hurts the other? Do not lean on them that way. Is it selfish? Is it fair when the other love you from the bottom of heart, then you just think about him/her as a tool to release stress and loneliness. You just know that you are lonely. So do you know the other is lonely too when waiting for you to answer the messages, waiting for you to care more about him/her, waiting for you to make your promises come true which you just said when you were happy without carefully thinking.
For your lover, give some time.
"Sometimes, I need you more than you need me. And sometimes, I need you to need me back." (From love and other drugs)


"If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, it's yours."
How about if it never comes back? It hurts."



Go around and catch this note, which touches my heart.

Yesterday, I visited Papa's house and met Mama there. They have been happy together for 52 years, and that love seems to last forever. Papa told me he met her at his dancing class 54-55 years ago, then fell in love with her at the first sight.

Look at this picture! See how happy they are. :)

And look at this, how old I am. :((